Service with Celeste….
I am starting a series on Service. Please tune in weekly as I highlight a particular form of service. I will provide you with ideas and examples of how you may enjoy serving your Top and your community.

Service with Celeste ~ The Basics

You often hear in the leather community the word “Service” thrown around. Submissives (slaves, bois, girls, cats, etc.) often enjoy providing the Top (Dominant, Sir, Daddy, Master, etc.) with various forms of service in hopes that it will please the Top and make their life, even for a brief moment, that much easier. Service essentially is a desire to make someone happy.

The great thing about service is that anyone can do it. You don’t need lots of money or a big fancy education. You just need passion and willingness.

Some feel called to service as some are called to particular religious order. It truly feeds the submissive to be able to provide service for their Top. Some Tops do not want service from their submissive. It is a good idea to talk about this in the beginning of the relationship. There is no worse feeling than to give service to someone who doesn’t want it.

There are many, many ways in which you can serve a person or the leather community as a whole. When service comes to mind, most think service it’s just about bootblacking, sexual service, providing someone tea, and cleaning house. While these are great examples of service I enjoy providing, there are also many other ways in which to serve. After all, we aren’t in the 1950s anymore. Travel planning, utilizing your web skills, party planning, using your skills as a mechanic, etc. are all areas that are taking an important role in service.

Now you would think all Tops would of course enjoy this type of service but that is not always the case. That is why it is important to find out what makes your Top happy and what needs your community may have; that way you can gear your skills and knowledge in the direction it needs to go.

I look forward to next week when I will talk about Tea Service and all that can entail. For those of you who think tea service isn’t for you, perhaps this may change your mind… Tea Service can be your submissive on her knees wearing vintage lingerie and stilettos, pleasing you at your feet while the tea is brewing. Now that I have everyone’s attention I’ll leave you with this thought… What is service to you?

In Service,
Celeste

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